She is truly an embodiment of balance. She has poise, grace, beauty and intelligence but most importantly she has caught your eye. That said, she has probably caught everyone’s eye in the room as well. She is a social butterfly, able to make others laugh and enjoy themselves all without any effort on her part. She walks in a room and can easily outshine any star in the sky. She has no shortage of available suitors waiting for a nod so your competition is stiff.
Ruled by Venus, the Libra woman loves everything about romance and seduction. She is the kind of woman who thrives within a partnership so she is ideal in relationships and marriage. She is always loyal to her mate and those in her inner circle. Understand now that she is NOT a notch on your belt. You want to settle down, lay some roots and GROW UP? This is woman you do it with. Otherwise, her cousin in crime the Aries, might be bored enough to throw you a bone.
With most women, being cute and funny could make you stand out. A Libra woman will laugh right along with you and move on thinking you are like everyone else. Coming to her direct, with some decorum and making her feel comfortable will help you stand out. “Hi, I’m insert name here ” – some intelligent conversation, a few well placed compliments and end the initial introduction with – “I would like to see you again.” If you get a yes then you have done your job well. Just don’t screw it up.
To seduce her, tilt the scales to her advantage. A Libra woman is a devotee to beauty and art so appeal to her natural senses. For your date, bring her to a museum and have lunch at an outdoor café. Weather permitting, take a walk through the local gardens and have a picnic. She likes things intimately casual and comfortable, like it is absolutely natural for you two to be where you are doing what you are doing. The relaxed romance of it all will do more for you than money can buy. So open her doors and pull out her chair but relax and be genuine. With a Libra woman there is no need to be intimidated, no need to be nervous just opens yourself up to her and the rest will just come together.
A Libra woman expects more than mumbles and nods from a potential suitor. Be prepared to discuss anything and everything and your opinions to be challenged. She is taking the time learn about you and what makes you tick; you should take the same opportunity and do the same. Show interest and ask questions, agree to disagree and praise your common ground. She doesn’t need or want perfection; your Libra wants to achieve a balance.
Let me remind you that famed dating rules like the “third date rule” or employing such crass charm relatable to the “slam bam thank you ma’am”, will not apply here. She descends from the Goddess of Love and is won over by the charm and passion that comes from intimacy. Thinking anything NEAR those tactics will lose you what little ground you did gain and have to win her all over again. IF she even lets you that is. Libra women take their time when it comes to relationships; do not make it any longer than it will already be.
From the moment of your introduction and her decision to give you a chance, you have been under a microscope. Where your date was and how you handled yourself will have been analyzed and scrutinized second by second. What you do after the first date will dictate your future with her. Now, men have earned the notorious stereotype of having a great date and then not calling for another week. Do this and she will have forgotten all about you and moved on. Maybe not first thing in the morning but sometime before dinner time, send her a text or leave her a message and let her know you enjoyed the date and really do want to see her again. Show her you want to invest in “us” and in her.
When you finally get to make love to your Libra, silently and internally rejoice. Hey, I know it was hard work and it took more than a minute so take a Carlton dance moment then get down to business. Kiss her slow and firm, tell her how gorgeous she is and revel in the foreplay. Your Libra woman appreciates quality not quantity. Make it good for her and she will make it very good for you, so good that a man may turn into a 30 second brother. Look, I’m just telling you how good it is, don’t shoot the messenger.
If you made it to the bed with a Libra then most likely she is thinking of keeping you. Well in order for you to keep her favor, put your best foot forward. She is still a social butterfly with a wide circle of friends and plenty of activities to keep her busy. She will want you with her and looking like the prize you are. Her friends are very important to her but don’t worry, just be yourself and look good doing it. They will let you in just as she has. If you can win her friends over, you will be one step closer to winning her.
Winning the heart of a Libra woman may sound like a lot of work but you won’t realize it. She will captivate you with her charm and mesmerize you by her presence alone. If you are fortunate enough to win her heart, your life will be one of passion and most importantly balance. She will love you deeper than you have never known. So go ahead and take your time, do it right. You will have the pleasure of a whole lifetime with her, showing you why it was worth it.